I want to be 100 per cent sure

Lovelines

We are both students in different institutions and love ourselves passionately. He does everything for me still I want to be 100 per cent sure that he love me. I am 20 and he is 24. So how can I prove his love for me?

Gorgol

Read the Lovelines issue of 30 May - 2 June on "how to know if he/she loves you." If you still need more explanation give a call to Lovelines. Good luck!

I can't understand him anymore

Lovelines

One gal is interested in my guy. This gal like my boyfriend so much, she has gone far to tell people that she is dating him. I inquired from him but he denied having anything to do with this gal. Since then I kept watching them but these days I can't understand him anymore it seems he is trying to abandon me. If I do not call, he will not call me and people are saying that they see them together and that they are in love.

Mama

Well it could be true and it may not because there is tendency of truth in each rumors. Do not listen to hearsay. Call him once again and ask him why he is trying to avoid you by not visiting and calling you as usual. Hit the nail on the head and tell him to choose between you and the girl in question. If he still deny his dating the girl try as much as possible to get a genuine evidence to let him know what he thinks you do not know. So if still find it difficult to chose between you and the girl then his love for you is not what you think. Follow what you desire but you still need to play your game to win his heart back. Good luck!

Tell me the signs

Lovelines

A girl sent her friend to me that she love me and she has demonstrated this through different signs to me, but she said I did not notice her. I want to know the signal ladies demonstrate when she is in love with a man.

Babu-G

If you are a constant reader of Lovelines, you might have read about such signals and women body languages. So, if you can not lay your hands on the issues watch out for it in our subsequent edition. Better still make a call to Lovelines. Good luck!

Why is it "like" instead of "love?"

Lovelines

Why do men at times use the word "like" instead of "love" aren't they like you very much and wants you to be the woman of their life?

'Tina

It is fifty-fifty. First, a man that always uses the word "like" instead of "love" for someone that he's dating is trying as much as possible not to commit himself to the relationship because he already knows that there is no deep love exist between him and the lady. Also, if he is a discipline and respectful person might be trying to control himself if he is a married man to avoid passion that does not mean he did not love you but he's trying not to raise the hope of the woman involve because he knows that he will not marry or ready for second wife or more wives. When a man see a lady to be a 24-hour on the road he will never use the word love for her instead 'I like you' or 'I like your social life, you are nice and cute.'

At the same time if a man is not in for intimacy but just want you as a casual lover he will never use the word "love" instead "like." It is fifty-fifty because sometimes when a man say I love you to a woman so far the woman is not interested in the man she will only reply "ok" or "thank you." Or they will sometime give a baby smile and hiss their nose after you. The reason is in-exhaust but give a call for more explanation. Good luck!

She gives many excuses

Lovelines

I am a guy of twenty-five years dating a gal whom I loved so much. I chose her as my life partner but to my surprise she never wants to come to my home. Each time I invited her to the house she always give me different excuses. Because of this I doubt about her love for me. However she promises to be my life partner. Can I still be patient with her?

Lam'

Yes, try to read our last issue on "how to decide if he/she loves you." Compare of what has been going on between two of you with what you read. Moreover, there any positive move that you have make to assure her that you really love her, did you frequent in her house and how often or where did you normally meet her, or you are just doing roadside or telephone love? Check how you commit yourself into this relationship before you take a final decision. Good luck!

I want to let her be

Lovelines

I love a gal, she keep turning me down. Sometimes she will accept and sometimes she will tell me am kidding; I don't love you and insult me badly. Later she will apologize and say 'I don't mean to hurt you.' I want to let her be I am tired. What do you think I should do?

Badou

You have to decide on your own because she has already turned you to a doll that she can push to wherever she like.  If you throw hand-fan up thousand times it will always land by the side. So once and for all forget about her and be her ciao-ciao friend. When she see you cruising with a better lady she will run after you but too late! Good luck!

I live a bad life

Lovelines

I was living a bad life before he came into my life and changed me. He overly loved me and feels happy anytime he set his eyes on me. Still I don't trust him and really don't know what to do.

Fatou

Your problem is that you are not honest and trust yourself this has made you to have a doubting mind in him. And the reason for this is because of your wayward life that you have lived in the past. Surely I know that you do not love him as he did love you. But from today try as much as possible to develop love for him. Think about the transformation he brought to your life by able to change you from bad to good. This is worth enough for you to trust him unless you do not tell what meaning attach to your trust. Good luck!