A good and perfect partner
Friday, July 06, 2012
that is quite apparent in a relationship is that you cannot be a perfect couple
or partner but you can be a good, even one of the best couples or partners that
one can imitate.
It is obvious that we come to love not by finding a perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly. The greatest thing about pictures, are that they can take you back to that exact moment. So to the world you may be just one person, but to one person you may be the world. To be a good and perfect partner you need to be friendly with each other so that you can make your life beautiful and well organise.
with as a good partner or couple you are to start your day like our forefathers
used to do, greet each other and pray together, for yourself and children if
there is any. Then make a good wish for each other as you are departing for
your daily routine. It is important as couple to always share ideas, talk and
discuss with each other.
This is especially important at the end of your daily routine when you are back from your job or businesses. And during sharing of ideas it should not be dominated by one partner but it should be give and take discussion. This is because there are times when lovers have a rough day and need to offload their minds.
As a compatible partner you must have different qualities and as time goes on the qualities will show face, therefore is good to compliment each other for the qualities you like in others. Never be a hidden partner, tell your partner your likes and dislikes this will make your relationship a healthy one and among the best. This is because some couples break up because of lack of understanding. And if there is any of your partner’s behaviour or habit that you do not like, it is better you let him or her know about it and make a correction.
One thing in our society is that couple especially men are not ready to give a helping hand to their wives in doing house works. But couple are to be each other keeper. So always help your partner in the house routine works; with this you will be a good supporter. At the same time support each other in your various endeavours either at work place, family, friend or wherever your support is needed. Be a good critic to each other rather than giving destructive criticism. Above all these try to encourage your partner so that they can have confidence in you.
your affection towards your partner; call him or her a pet name with good
compliment. Compliment each other with gift not only during a special occasion
but anytime. Appreciate each other not when you are together alone but also
when you are with friends and family.
Make yourself happy, at leisure time try to cook especially dinner, watch movie together and sometime go for outing to different and decent places. Doing all these increase the love and make you want each other and as well renew the promises you are having for each other.
One thing you should know is that nobody is perfect. So do not try to change your partner, because they are them and you should respect them for who they are. Just try to appreciate your partner for being an individual.
Author: Yunus Saliu