Agony corner![]() Friday, June 19, 2009 Can I be forgiven? Lovelines I am 22, dating a girl of my age for the past 3 months. We have been having some nice time together since our first date. I will add that we have never had a misunderstanding. We have been calling and texting each other frequently. About 2 weeks ago I received a call from a man who claimed to be my girlfriend's husband. He asked me a lot of questions and I answered. He said the girl is his wife and he has been seeing my regular calls and romantic text messages on her phone. I didn't believe this. But when I asked my girlfriend, she said she was forced to marry him but she doesn't love him. I stopped calling and texting her but she still continued calling and texting me. Now her marriage has been called off. This really shocked me because I am the cause of all this. I know what goes around come round. Can I be forgiven? I don't know what to do? Jerreh Well, it seems your conscience troubles you. This is a really sad story. Actually, the girl should have more honest with you and not have kept you in the dark for so long. If her marriage is really over, what you can do in atonement is to marry her, but this is only if you truly love her. Try to sit down with her and talks things over to see where you both stand. Good luck! What does he take me for? Lovelines I am a young girl dating one man for about 5 years now. This guy stays in Europe but every year he visits The Gambia, his motherland. We always enjoy ourselves each time he's around without restriction. The problem is that when it is time for him to go back after his holiday break, he will not inform me. I always hear that my fiancé has traveled back to Europe from outsiders. And he will not call until after two months. I don't know if I should leave this man. Jemilatou I don't think you love each other! This is obvious, because you did not say it in your message. You regard this man as your fiancé but you do not say anything about his family and yours family too. If you both love each other and he's really a fiancé, what efforts have you made to find his reason for not telling you about his leaving? Why can't you ask him and yourself what you want to achieve in the relationship? You can't leave him now until you find out the reason behind his actions and know what both of you want from the relationship. You can call for more advice. Good luck! loveliness Romantic texts HajieYou are my sweetheart! You are sometimes out of sight but never out of my mind. You are often far away but always close to my heart. Though you are not with me, you are always within me. I love you more than I can express because I don't know how to express it so you will understand. But I will continue to blow and send you my special kiss that you are always yearning for. Modou Sarjo You are always in my heart. I will like you to be my darling till eternity. I hate seeing you going each time you visit me. What a life? When will you be mine forever? With you behind me, I have a complete life. I will climb the mountains without touching anything just because of you. I will jump into the lagoon without thinking of anyone else to prove my love to you. I love you like hair loves the head, and as well as the baby loves honey. Dear, pray so that what we dreamt together shall become real. Kebba Johnson Have you ever loved that you almost collapse when you miss the person that you love? Have you ever experienced hatred because your lover stressed you? Has any one ever told you that without you life is meaningless? Tell me your candid answers because I will like to carry on. But remember love is like a violin, when the strings stop, the sound continues. Mary Samsideen It is a thing of joy being in love with someone who understands what it means and what it takes to be in love. I love you and I will always love you forever. Isatou Author: By Yunus Saliu | Media Actions See Also |