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Africa » Gambia
Friday, June 26, 2009
He wants me to always swear

Lovelines
I have been going out with my boyfriend for almost one year but he still doesn't trust me.

My fiancé is very jealous he always says "can you swear that you don't have another lover beside me?". At the same time he will complain of my not seeing him or calling him for a day or so. Please help me!
Rabiat

Get one thing into your skull, that there is a little different between the words boyfriend/girlfriend and fiancé.  Be careful not to mix the two together. Boyfriend is a man or boy that somebody has a romantic or sexual relationship with while fiancé is a man that a woman is engaged to - perhaps to marry each other. In answering your question, I will presume that both of you are boyfriend and girlfriend. Should that be, it is better you call him to a seat and ask him why he always want you to swear. It is better he tells you his reasons and what he expects of you.

Love should be without condition, but if his conditions are something you can abide by, continue with the relation but if not the decision is yours. Jealousy is nothing but the foolish child of pride. Let him know that jealousy is always born with love, but doesn't always die with it.

It is a glaring truth that a man who can not trust you in a relationship of almost a year has his reason and will never marry you in future. If he does, he will still divorce you. Take note of that and if you think it is a lie visit Lovelines at the office or call for more reasons and explanation. Good luck!

I am falling in love

Lovelines
I need some advice. I believe that I am falling in love with a girl. I really don't know what to do because I think she is dating guys with nice cars. My car is not bad either. I also think she has a boyfriend but I know the guy doesn't love her like I do. What can I do?
Abba

You sound very funny. Do you know why? Because you are not confident of yourself, you are not proud of what you have, and you are not working at your own space. And moreover, how can you judge that she is dating more than one guy and what gives you the impression that you love her more than her boyfriend? One thing you should first ask yourself is whether you really love the girl, or you just envy her relationship with other guys.

Take it this way, if you really love her, forget about good or rugged cars, take a bold step and chat her up. If she is interested she will come down and if she is not forget her and look elsewhere. But the major thing is that you should summon courage, stand before her and express your feelings. Good luck!

What can I tell her?

Lovelines
I am a good reader of the Agony Corner, it is very interesting and educative. Well my question is: when you want to chase a girl what can you say convince her and win her love?  
Jaliba

There is nothing in particular to tell a woman in order to convince her or win her love. The only thing that should be your weapon is confidence. Your ability to stand and say what is in your mind can make you a good spinner and have women following you like bees. For practice, start with a good compliment when you see a lady you admire.

Try to be courteous, add a little humor to your talk and discussion, don't sound commanding and forceful, be yourself (that is you should not act falsely). Call for more information or visit Lovelines. Good luck!

I have no feelings for her anymore

Lovelines
I am 21 and I have been dating a girl for the past four years. Now I no longer have any feelings for her. I want to quit the relationship. However, I don't know how to tell her because she loves me too much. Already I have started dating a new girl.
Saidou

Have you thought of your decision very well? This question is necessary because you give no reason for your not having any feeling for her anymore. Well it is a simple love-divorce equation. If you can not face her to say you want to quit the relatioship, call her on the phone and do that.

Do not send her a text message to do this because the fear will envelope you and cause you to say it is a mistake. But voice it out. Let her know that it is better you tell her the truth than hiding and wasting her precious time. Call for more information. Good luck!

Romantic texts
Nyima
Without you the stars are dull and my heart is sick, my temperature is high but with you around, I am alive and my life is worth some million dollars.
Y-King

Dad-boy
You are the only one I look around for; since ever I met you, you are the only one I know. I can not forget you, you mean so much to me because I cannot let you go. I will be your lover in the winter, and summer time, for any reason, for any season. I will be satisfied as long as I am here with you to the end.
Sarjo

NB: Send romantic texts via Lovelines to express your feelings to your lover.
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