Agony CornerFriday, July 31, 2009 Ten years relationship LovelinesI have been in a relationship for ten good years with a boyfriend I love so dearly. We had a baby but unfortunately this baby passed away. The problem is that my boyfriend's family does not like me. Antonia First, accept Lovelines' sympathy on the death of your child. You and your boyfriend are indeed superb lovers as ten years dating is not a joke. I think it is high time now you sat down with your boyfriend and decided what to do about the relationship. If you decide on marriage, you will work on getting his family to accept you. Try to find out why they do not like you. They might not necessarily hate you, might just harbour some misconceptions about you. Good luck! I date more than three girls LovelinesI am 23, dating more than three girls at the same time. Among them, there is a girl who really loves me. This girl is caring and very kind to my family and me. She calls me more than 10 times daily. I appreciate what she is doing for me but I am cheating on her. My problem is that I can't really trust women because of my past experiences. Each time I give my heart to a woman, she betrays me. They walk away from me more often. What can I do to trust her? Ashtrop You need to sit down and think. From your message, it seems there is something wrong with your behaviour, which makes women walk away from you. The fact that you are sure that one of them loves you most, it is better you evaluate the love you have for her. Try to reciprocate her love. Having a chain of girlfriends cannot solve your problem. At the same time, no one can teach you a particular way to trust someone because trust is not what you say by mouth. Trust must always reflect in action, so you need only to observe it from who ever you relate with. And I believe she has been showing you different things that might make you trust her. So get serious and stop endangering your life. Good luck! She always says 'is my brother' LovelinesMy relationship with my girlfriend is just six months. When I ask her who calls her each time she receives call each time we are together she always says it 'is my brother'. If I demand to speak with this 'brother' of hers, she will reply: "no you can't because you will give me problem." And if the person online asks where she is, she will answer; "I am at home" or "I am in the office" when she is with me. I can't trust her anymore. Gibbeh Such behaviour does raise suspicion between lovers and creates confusion. It is easy to know if she is playing double game with you through her conversation with the other person online. The decision is now yours. No matter what and how, such things are bound to bring about jealousy and lack of trust. So let her know that you are not about this. It is necessary that she knew your feeling about this rather than keeping it to yourself. But if nothing is done and you still can't condone it, take ten minutes deep breath and follow your heart. Good luck! I am discouraged LovelinesThere is only one girl I love in my life. I chat with her everyday still I could not get. I am discouraged about this. Sanneh Well I do not know why you felt discouraged when you did not really let her know how you feel for her. You need to tell her what is in your mind before you feel discouraged about her. If she turns you down, that is not the end of life. What you need to do is to put it behind you and surf for another girl that will reciprocate your love. I love her with all my heart LovelinesI sent a text a lady I deeply love so that we can meet when she is free since I do not want to tell her over the phone. She replied and insisted to know why I wanted to see her. In response through text, I told her that I love her but she replied that she has a major problem that she is trying to deal with. She ended the text that I should not say anything more about that. Sincerely I deeply love her with all my heart and soul, I want to marry her. Ousamat Take that as her first reaction. Try to visit her and talk to her on one on one rather than sending her a text message. Ask her about the problem she complains of. You do not necessarily have to show that you can solve it, just show concern. If she still turns you down after this, do not feel bad but become one of her good friends. Through friendship you can easily win her love. But it is not a do or die affair. Good luck! Romantic Text MariamLove is a game, if so let's play the game as it is expected. I have promised to live each day with you as if it were my last. To be honest with you even though it may sometimes hurt, and tell you everything about my feelings as well as my thoughts. I want you to know that I promise you all the happiness I am capable of giving. Sweet heart, promise me your love as I will always love you. Rexy My-Baby I will always remember the love we want to share together. Love is love when it exists between lovers because it never fights neither does it hates. I love you with all my heart. Bekai Author: Yunus S.Saliu | Media Actions |