He promises to divorce his wife

Lovelines,

              I just thought of given it a trial few months back as I met a guy online on one of the sites on the internet. We chatted for hours while I felt he is the type of a man I want in my life. So we picked it up and got deeply in love. I never thought he has ever married since I have not in my life felt this way for any man. At the same time I can say truly he felt the same way as I am.

However, my assumption of him being single was wrong as I got to know that he is married when we met. We were very fond of each other still I wanted to end the relationship with immediate effect but it went other way. As we were together an argument over his marital status ensued between us but he overpowered me as he kissed and balled me that day. He promises to divorce his wife and be with me because he does not love her further.

Ida

There is no arm in giving online dating a trial as it might be your chance. But one thing that is common with such dating is that over 60 per cent of the meetings or dates are always fakes. It is either the man is a fake or the woman is not genuine and serious. It is always start with interest and love suspense but whoever that is wise either a man or a woman involve should remember that a ‘kiss can be a comma, a question mark, or an exclamation sign.’

This is the basic thing in love that every one of us should always put in consideration not during only online dating but when we newly met a lover. In brief, his promise to divorce his matrimonial wife because of you is sending two clear signals. First to win your love and have you for himself, are you sure he meant this? Secondly, you should know that any day he meet another lady again you too will be divorced and become someone he does not love again in other to give way to the next.

Think and think wisely, if this man love you and you know that you can marry a married man tell him not to divorce his wife instead let him be a good husband to two of you with times they will and you learn how to love each other and stay in peace and harmony. However, if you cannot marry a married man then date him and let him go because if he divorces his wife because of you sooner or later he will divorce you too for another woman. Good luck!

I don’t know how to satisfy my wife

Lovelines,

               I am a married man but do not know how to satisfy my wife. However, we are married now going to two years. She said I am not satisfied her when it comes to matrimonial duty and I know for sure that I am not. And she really loves me and I love her as well. This is sometimes making her not ready to ball as she complains of me punishing her after my own satisfaction.

Foday

It is a pity that the way you attract your woman when it get to bed time is part of the cause of your inability to satisfy her during bedtime. To satisfy your wife sexually, it need the efforts of both of you. If you want your wife to enjoy you on bed you do not need to be selfish. Presumably what you have been doing with her is what they called raw S**. This is because you totally avoid foreplay just because you are already in mood while your wife is yet to set. It should not be your body alone that is set to ablaze on bed but hers too before you should do anything.

Therefore you have two things to work on, the first is the foreplay to be explained below and the second is how to stay longer which could be another topic or you make a phone call for immediate answer. So she will always talk about punishing her because it is when you are down that she is up for response then you cannot kick start again. Pity woman! Since body might not respond to fun every time, you need to work on it and make it respond to your desire through constant practice. If you want to satisfy her and yourself, so try to build the excitement.

Start this with a nice emotional chat with unexpected hugs and kisses and then continue with your chatting without rush. Spend enough time on this. This is what is called love play. Let this be always not at bedtime only and try to study and know about her body’s response. Although women body is not easy to understand if you do not get closer to them but men’s body is easier for women to understand. So do not hurry to take her on bed because as a man your body is faster to response compare to woman’s body especially when you do not make yourself to get used to each other.

This means woman can work on a man jut few second to make him get erection while it might take a man up to twenty minutes to stimulate a woman. This is because it takes woman sometimes before excited and ready for the game.So to make your wife in need of you every time: Always be friendly to her and engage in threshing-out when you are alone in particular at home. In everything you do with her try to be romantic and when you are on bed make foreplay your first step, palpate and caress her very well and for sometime before going further.

And remember to always tell her the three words “I love you.” As you do all these there will be gradual changes and satisfaction. Above all be faithful to her because women hate thought of any other women or girls having their man when they are in bed with their husbands, just like men. Good luck!

Are you a sweet lover?

Lovelines,

I am a young lady, hardworking, caring, and lovely, I would be very happy if I can meet my partner through Lovelines. I do not just want a partner but serious one that will be my half part.

Mirabel

Are you a lovely, caring, gentle, respectful, understanding and a good Christian brother above 30-year that really want to settle down? Well, pick your phone and call Lovelines. ‘Remember no room for rushing, and laziness.’ I promise it is going to be seedling and romantic.For more information dial Lovelines. Good luck!

I will lay my life for her; But she does not appreciate my love

Lovelines,

               There is a lady friend that I am interested in but she never appreciates my love. She said we cannot date because we have shared some certain secrets among ourselves. She made it cleared that she will never date a friend that knows her hidden secrets. I have tried very hard to show her in a million ways and let her understand that I am ready to lay my life for her because I love her. What Extra efforts can I add to all I have done to convince and win her love, because I cannot afford to loose her?

Enssa

She is a lady of policy and integrity. There is nothing else you need doing to win her love than acceptance, patient and closeness. She has a genuine reason for turning you down. So far you know each others hidden secret, if you date; there will be no future for the relationship. Although you might have stand a better chance to win her love but your secret with her might be nothing to reckon with in term of relationship with any woman.

Same to her, she might be feeling that you want to use the advantage of what you know about her to make her fall for you. Well, before accepting your faith and wait for when her kingdom will permit you, try one more time and if it is still the same, remain a very close friend to her. She might consider you in future if god of love smiles on you. Good luck!

We have misunderstanding

Lovelines,

              I am having a problem with my girlfriend and I want to reconcile with her but I do not know how to start.

Jammal

It is unfortunate that I could not say exactly how you will start simply because I do not know the bone of contention. Had it been that I know what exactly caused the palaver or the separation it will be easier. However, all you need to do especially when you are at fault is to swallow your pride, be confidence and man enough to confront and beg him in simple and plain language.

Tell her “sweet heart, let bygone is a bygone, please I am sorry!” You will never be hurt by saying this. Though some men do not like saying ‘please, I am sorry’ to their partner even when they are at fault. Women also like hearing this from their partner. For more information, call Lovelines. Good luck!