Friday, June 15, 2012
He refuses to visit me
Just like a joke, we started with a friendship and end dating. I really love him as a friend before my love expression for him hence I cannot control my feeling. He accepted and said he loves me, too.It is three months now but he never one day step his leg in my house for a visit. Whenever I ask him why he did not visit me, he will give one excuse or the other, particularly saying “am busy.”
might be a busy guy that his job especially demands a lot of time. But no
matter how busy he is if he is willing or hundred per cent love you he will
definitely find time out of no time to visit you at least once in a month or in
three months. Although he might think otherwise if he knows that he is not
welcome to your house wholeheartedly.
Another thing is that, do you visit him at all. If you do visit him and still he never consider visiting you then he has his own reason for not coming. Probably the love is not deep or he does not want to commit himself to the relationship as you want. You need at least one more time to ask him to visit you and if it is the same answer, then leave ‘visit’ alone when he is ready and happy he will surely come. But if you cannot continue without his visit to your house then stay on your own. Good luck!
We often quarrel
I love my boyfriend dearly but we often quarrel just because of jealous. And anytime we quarrel he will accuse me of looking for avenue to get out of the relationship. I am 23 and I want the relationship to work because I do not want to leave him. So how can I avoid been having problem with him because we both want peace?
To avoid unnecessary quarrel between two of you, you both need to try by all means to stop jealous. If you do not stop jealous it will put you in a mess. And to avoid been jealous you ought to understand, respect, tolerate, endure, accept, listening to each other. At the same time overlook some other things and stop invalid accusation. It is too much of jealous that always make lovers not to trust each other. So when the trust is not there, dear, the love is heading to collapse street. Good luck!
I love the guy
A guy is living with my sister in the same compound each time I see this guy on my visit to my sister I am always happy and like to be with him. I do not know how to tell him this, can I text or discuss it with him on phone.
If his sight or appearance is really intoxicating you, then talk to him one on one. If he loves you, he will be happy to hear it and if he does not like it, you will know. Express of love to someone you are attracted to do not necessarily mean that you say it out; your action towards the person will reveal your thought. You can use your body language to express your desire to him. It can be done through friendly chatting, playing and at a love garden. Whatever, it all depend on your level of maturity. You can call for more information. Good luck!
How to make him trust you
One thing I would like to know is how can a woman make her man to trust her since the man always thinks that his babe is cheating on him while the woman is not?
As a woman if you surely not shaking hand with another man or cheating on your man to be precise, there is no special proof than for you to remain faithful, patient, and never doubt the love he has for you. There is no need to start discussing him with friends so that they will not coach you against your wish. Large number of men always not trusts their wives especially those men that look another man’s wife and want affairs with them by all means it can take them. They think it is ‘do me, I do you.’ Well, it is a matter of conscience, time will come there will be trust. Good luck!
She always tells me to wait
I am a young man in my early 20s. Three years ago a lady was able to convinced and proved to me that she loved me. This I was satisfied that I am in love with her too, since then we are dating. Meanwhile, each time I raise marriage issue she will tell me to wait for her to complete her schooling. But now that she has completed she said I can get marry if I find or see other girl. I need your advice.
She is right because it seems that you are too pushy. To my understanding this lady wants to continue her education by attending college or going up to university level if men like you will permit her. To avoid wasting your time and achieve her ambition, that is why she has told you to get marry whenever you find another girl.I do not know if you are working, into a business or so, but do not be selfish. Do not be selfish in the sense that it was after your achievement you start thinking of marriage. So give her time. But if you think you cannot wait or there is no sense in her talk you have your life to live, do as she said. Good luck!
Author: Yunus Saliu