I am in a real trouble

Lovelines,

               I am a young girl in a deep trouble. I have been going out with a boy for three years before we broke up just because I got too much friends on facebook. This made me not to have enough time for him. At the same time there is a guy that wanted to date me, he told me everything about himself and the girlfriends. He does make love with his girlfriends; he is so caring and loving. But I am scare to date him because of what he has told me about his ex girlfriends. And my ex said I would have a miserable love life that would make him laugh at me in the end.

Fatoumatta

Having a lot of facebook friends does not mean you should have less time for your boyfriend. In short I do not know what it has to do with your time, unless two of you are always chatting on computer without doing any other thing. There is no remedy for that so far you broke up. Talking about the other guy, it is left to you to make up your mind hence you clearly understood him and his past love life.

If you are satisfy with his behavior and can meet his desire no problem. But if you cannot live up to his expectation or accept doing what he has done with his other girlfriends with him, why waste your time. Your ex is not a God to tell you that you will have a miserable love life; all you need is to be careful, serious and know the type of company you keep. Good luck!

I am not fair to her

Lovelines

                I have a girlfriend that we have been dating for almost seven years. We really love ourselves but the problem is that I am not fair to her. Because I always ignore her each time she visited and met another girl in my place. But now that I am changed and concentrate on her alone she started cheating on me.

She once stayed late in her boyfriend place and called me to pick her up. I did go to pick her without saying a word relating to this her action. She later changed but in the last eight months he started cheating on me again. I tried to talk to her but she does not want to quit the relation. I know she truly love me what can I do because I want to marry her.

Dibba

I admire your courage for saying the truth about your unfairness to her. One thing is that you are the one that pushed her into this. I will not talk much about that because you know your fault already. Well, like you had mentioned that you want to marry her, give yourself time for final decision and if it is still to marry her then you have two things to do. First sit her down and apologize for what you have put her through and the present condition.

Let her know that it is you that pushed her to what she is doing. Add to it that you have no grudge against her on this because you love her. It is still necessary that you should let her know how bad you feel seeing her with other men. Whatever, assured her of been a new man entirely. Then propose to her and if she blissfully accept this she will stop seeing other men. But if she is reluctant well, her mind is no more with you. But one thing is that seven years relationship is very long and if you do not propose and wait for her answer, well I do not see how you will become husband and wife. You can call for more information. Good luck!

She does not make me happy

Lovelines,

My girlfriend loves me but she never made me happy. She often made me angry and acted as if she does not care. Because of this I always feel so bad and been left out.

Carol

You did not expounded on what you mean by she does not make you happy. One thing I know is that if you love someone or someone loves you, you or the person will do and always make each other happy. If you definitely sure that this girl love you tell her what she has been doing that make you feel angry and unhappy.

Saying it out will make her change but keeping it to your chest will not help the matter. Sometimes our behaviors might wrong but think it is right. She might right but her presentation might wrong, so try to chat with her about this to make your relationship a healthy one. Good luck!

We always break and make it up

Lovelines,

                It is over three years we have been dating and I love him but we always break and make it up. We recently broke up again because he has a fling with my friend. Despite balling my friend he is dating another girl and at the same time another girl is carrying his child in the womb. Now he still want to leave them and come back to me If I will accept that he is having unborn baby. I love him but I do not know what the right thing to do is.

Nyancho

Well break up is sometimes like hangover from too much of alcohol one consumed. Since you love him and ready to continue to accept him fornicate around you can reconcile with him and accept his unborn baby and the mother. But if you know that your life did not depend on him then why are you not stay and wait for a right guy instead of today break and make it up tomorrow. Since you love him you can still give him one more chance but I am not assuring you of him being faithful to you. Therefore follow your heart to choose for you because for three years you suppose to have made a plan or know what you want in the relation. You can call Lovelines for more discussion on this. Good luck!

I will think about it

Lovelines,

                 There is a guy who approached me that he wants us to date. I told him that I will think about it and since then he did not talk about it again. Now I totally fell for him and I love him but I do not know how to tell him that I do. How can I tell him, please?

Samantha

This is one of the reasons bluffing is not good. I am not saying you should throw yourself on a man just like that whenever one come your way. But there are ways you respond to keep a man in suspense and make him run after you till you decide to date him or not. At the same time there are ways you talk that such man will not repeat it before you again. Beside every man has his own policy in approach to women. If it is not too late, you can send him a romantic love text as an icebreaker.

This might wake him up to rewire his feeling for you and enable you to give in. At the same use your body language to tell him yes, let him know that there is something for him. Better still if you are confidence enough, invite him to your house and tell him that his application is fully considered and there is a place for him in your love garden. Still if you do not know how to go about it call for more explanation. Good luck!

How can I approach her?

Lovelines,

              There is a woman that we are working together in the same office. Her love is intoxicating me but I cannot approach her because I am shy to express my feeling for her. How can I get across to her?

Sarjo

I do not know if you really know anything about courage and confident. Try as much as possible and remove fear from your mind. So, summon courage and be confident to open the pot of love you have in your hand for her. Let her know your uncover and floating feelings you have been nursing for her.

Moreover, if you cannot say this direct, then show her through your action toward her. Give her good compliment and if possible shower her with love gift especially if you are older than her. This will reveal your intention to her and follow it up with a lot of free love and romantic talk. Good luck!

Our relationhip is dull

Lovelines,

               I am young lady of 22 dating a man who is 4 years older than me. We love ourselves dearly but my inability to visit him regularly is making our relationship dull. This is as a result of my parents who are very strict because they do not allow me going out often. I don’t want to loose him.

Jatou

It is your thought that your relationship is dull, but you can light it up through regular communication on phone with each other. Start chatting with your guy in a romantic way and let him know that your not visiting him regularly is not by your doing but matter of time. Moreover,If you want to be freed, try to have good grade or job this will impress your parents and you will gain your freedom. Good luck!