Agony cornerFriday, May 29, 2009 A marriage without child LovelinesI am married for ten years without child but my husband got one. But one day he told me that he would like to marry a lady who lives in UK. According to him his reason for wanting to marry this lady is based on the fact that he wants to secure papers. The said lady is married to a Gambian already with three kids. This lady's husband knows about it. Josephine I love to answer this text referring to a love oath "marriage is for better for worse, for richer and poorer." But this could be easy for me to do if you talk to me over the phone. This is because you will be able to give answers to my questions. Better still, you said your husband got one, he wanted to marry a lady in UK because of papers. My question is is this lady a European or Gambian? According what you said this lady is married to a Gambian with children but what about her husband and the children? Is it an arranged/business marriage? What efforts have both of you taken for you to conceive - was there any medical test? All these and more need answers before I can go further. If you still need answer call, because Allah is merciful and benevolent. However, we find delight in the beauty and happiness of children that makes the heart too big for the body. Try to call for more information. Good luck! She breaks up but want to reconcile LovelinesI am a young lady dating a guy who has once broke up with his ex girlfriend. I met this guy and starts dated him. We are having nice time but the problem is that his ex wants him and she's doing everything to win his love back. What do I do? Jokor What you need to do is to be more romantic. Observe him so that you can know his like and dislike. Try as much as possible to show him more love. Find out not from him but from close friends what his ex does that you are not doing for him. Try to always be there for him and let him know that you love him. Doing all or parts of the above, will draw him to you. Note one thing, if he loves you he will surely come to you and concentrate on you. You can call me for more relevant information. Good luck! In love with my ex's friend LovelinesI am in love with my ex boyfriend's friend. What can I do? Jai Well it is your choice and feeling. There is nothing bad in it so far as the guy can withstand the storm. Remember it is love that makes two people to stay in a room. It is this love that ties you together. Remember love is like a violin, so if you love him forget about your ex. But note that it is important that you know what both of you want from the relationship in order not to be a laughing stock in the future. Good luck! He's always busy LovelinesI have been dating a boy for almost a year now. The guy travelled and he calls me frequently. Each time he calls he will say he is busy, which is the reason that I did not hear from him. I love him so much but I am afraid he doesn't know this. What can I do, should I leave him ? Aisha One year is not too much. Slow and steady is the winner of the race. Before you take a decision you have to be convinced of his feelings towards you. Have you ever proved to him how dear you love him and cherish him before he travelled. You need to let him know that you truly love him. You might be wrong in thinking that he doesn't know that you love him dearly. As he said he might be busy as it is not easy to settle down when someone is out of his home country. But if you know that you have proven to him your love, wait for him for few more time. However, if there is no changes follow your heart. This is very important. Good luck! I am madly in love with him LovelinesIt is now 11 months since I dated this guy. Initially, she called me everyday like they call people to prayer in the mosque and text me regularly like Africell used to send 'Jerejef' text. He used to tell me that a lot of girls do call him but he does not like them. But information reaching me reveals that he has another girlfriend. This almost turned me mad. However he denied this but later I found out about another lady in which he admitted and told me that he will change. I told him that I will break up with him but I could not because I love him. However, he seemed to change but not totally. I do not know if he does know that I am madly in love with him. Please does this guy love me or toying with me emotionally? Aja-Fatou Following your message carefully what he has for you is infatuation not deep love. He told you that "lot of girls do call him but he does not like them," this is part of his strategies to pin you down. He does say it in order to sow his love deep in your heart in which he seemed to have succeeded. Still you can have him if you show him more love and care but never jittery before him and do not act like without him there is no love elsewhere. The moment he knows that he has the love master key to your heart, you will become his 'chakri.' So be yourself and confident. Call for more information. Good luck! I need a Gambian female friend LovelinesI am a constant reader of the Daily Observer and really like the Agony Corner in your Lovelines column. I am a 32-year-old male, single and desirous of meeting a Gambian female between the ages of 22 and 28 as a friend. I would be pleased to meet any wilful lady. Meanwhile my contact information can be obtained from the Lovelines. Richie I want a woman for marriage LovelinesI am a dynamic good-looking man. I am 40 years old and single. I need a responsible lady between the age of 35 and 42. The lady should be single, beautiful, Christian and a working class of about 7ft height. She should be ready and willing to get married very soon. Tony In need of a long time relationship LovelinesI am a young man in need of a good girl to date and build a real relationship Pa-boy Fiancée wanted Lovelines I would be grateful if I can have a fiancé through Lovelines. The would be fiancée should be fair in complexion, intelligent, lovely and caring girl. E-boy If you are one of the ladies out there that meet the demands of the four young men Richie, Tony, Pa-boy, and E-boy what are you waiting for? Get more information about the gentlemen through a call to Lovelines. Good luck! Romantic texts Steve It is hard for two people to love each other when they live in two different worlds. But when these two worlds collide and become one, it is you and I. So, it is hard to say hello because it might be goodbye. It is hard to say I am okay because sometimes I am not. But, it is easy to say I miss you because I know that I really miss you. B-Girl Abdoullahi Love is love, which has faith passion and loyalty. Note that it is this loyalty that doesn't allow a person to become disloyal when in love. Khaddy Nefatuti That scene of romance, that scene of romantic heart, that crazy cause, that flirting of yours. I must confess does make me restless. It is you I love. With you I am not afraid of any storm, for I am learning to sail my ship. This is just to assure you of my strong and everlasting love. Samba Author: Yunus Saliu |
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