Lovelines,
I am 27, dating a married man for 6 years. Recently, I discovered that I was 14 weeks pregnant, but he wanted an abortion. This was after I have informed him about the situation. Prior to this time I carried had out an abortion for him after some persuasion. Now he suggested the same and I said no. He cut off communications with me and went about telling stories about me. What can I do?
Jenny

I must confess, I still do not know why some young single girls run after married men. Is it for money, strength or respect? I want to know. I want you to know first of all that a large percentage of young men who are comfortable and without problems with their wives are not ready to have another wife. But they need mistresses that can satisfy their lusts and desires outside the home.

I must say that the two of you have behaved irresponsibly. You can have used measures to guide against pregnancy, especially since this is not the first time you have found yourselves in this situation. Try to talk to him, the two of you need to sort this out together.

Even if he is unwilling to accept the baby, my advice is to go ahead and have the baby, not only for moral reasons but for health considerations as well.
Good luck!


Lovelines
I am a 25-year-old woman, a graduate and fully employed. I have been dating a guy for three years. We are not of the same tribe. We always quarrel. In fact, we are not compatible. Though I love him, I don't like his character. His goal and objectives are weak and totally different from what I expect from my future husband.

He does not support my dreams, neither does he see beyond the present. I don't think he wants me to be greater than him. I have tried many times to convince him to invest his income but he prefers to enjoy life. He broke up with me on the phone. But, less than a month after, he ran back to me begging me that we should get together again. I don't know what to do.
Saffie

The worst partner to have in any relationship is one who would not support your dreams. In the school of love, it is a sin to date/marry someone that you are not compatible with. There has to be a connection between two of you if there is anything like love.

If he is like this while in courtship, he would be a thorn in your flesh if you marry him. Have a heart to heart discussion with him. Let him know your likes and dislikes, if he can not comprehend you, dump him now instead of wasting your time with him. A stitch in time saves nine. Good luck!



    
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