A pleasant weekend to you readers out there especially the Lovelines fans and pen pals both online and on the key. I would like you to start this weekend with something special as we are still in the New Year mood. Why New Year mood? Simply because last December 31st as we are ushering into January 2012 individual made a resolution of what to do and not to be done in this 2012.Also we are getting ready for St Valentine’s Day slated for February and it is considered to be month of love. So as usual, continue sending what you think is bothering you for remedy and for others to learn from. Remember a problem shared, is a problem solved.

In the past I have discussed about series of common lies women and men used to tell their partners, still it is necessary that we refresh our mind on this again. In this week edition let us look at some bunches of common lies women tell their men while in subsequent editions we look into the bunches of common lies men tell their women too. People always have something in common, which could be negative or positive. This also applies to sexes.  Apart from physical attributes that people of the same sex have in common, there are some ideas that they also share like:

I never love a man like this: when women wants to put a man in cloud seven, among what they will say is that they have never loved a man like this before. Women say this to capture man’s mind as this statement will intoxicate him and answer to their demands without a second thought. When some men hear this statement from a woman they love, there will be no time to censor such woman.

Because a wise and intelligent woman or women in love will never say this just any time. But they say this solemnly when on bed or in a very calm environment that you have no alternative than to hold her tight and show that you too love her. Mind you this above statement can also be said to another man tomorrow.

I want to spend the rest of my life with you: Have you ever meet a new matured lady to tell you this, despite the fact that she has a boyfriend before you met her or still having another one aside you. Women always like saying this sometimes when they have been going out with a love for sometime. So also when you bring or buy woman new presents. This can as well be said to you or other men she is going out with, because love is a game of choice.

Sorry! My mother sent me an errand: This is a lie young ladies that dates more than one man will tell their boyfriend who is on frequent visit to their compound to check on them. She will say this for cover up anytime the boy did not meet her at home or when she wants to go out with someone else. She will use the mother as a cover-up without the mother’s knowledge and present herself to be decent, honest and an obedient lover before a man.

He is my cousin/uncle: It is sometimes difficult to know how many uncles or cousin a girl has. This sometime makes it difficult to differentiate a boyfriend from the family. Women who keep chain of boyfriends or man friends always have many uncles/cousins whenever their lover’s meet them she will ask, can’t you remember that my uncle or cousin I told you about before?

I swear you are the only man in my life: It is funny that most boys or men continued hearing this statement from their women and still find out that the woman is going after other men. If you notice very well, you might sees that she had just drop from another man’s car. I always dream about you: This is another method women use to convince and see their men everyday. When a woman find it difficult not to see a man in a day, in a strong declaration, she will say I can stay without you because I always dream about you. If you are not so firm she can make you to forget your job for a day because she always want you by her side.

I miss you: It is a most common lie between men and women but women are fond of it. Woman can be with a secret and corner-side lover at the same time telling another one on the phone “I miss you, please where are you because I want to come to you.” Woman tease man with this three words in order to put the mind of her lover at rest.  

I love you with all my heart: Watch out! She knows that when you hear this you will meliorate and become mellow she will follow this words by running her fingers through your hair before you know it a kiss will land on your lips. No option than to drop, if any, allegation against her.

Since I left my last boyfriend/husband I made no love with another person except you: Despite you know a woman to have a boy or man friend, as far as you did not see her making love with him, she will continue to tell you ‘over a year I have not sleep with anyone except you. Similarly, some will say that ‘it is not as you think, I am a virgin’ and continue to exploit you. Surprisingly, in few months time you may find her pregnant for another man that never take it easy with her.

I have a message from my mother: Woman will give an excuse of visiting her parents, friends or so as an excuse when they have other places or appointment to honor. Watch out when they newly start saying mother want to see me or I am going to my friend almost every day. Something is fishing somewhere.