Lovelines,

               I am in a big dilemma without knowing how to get of it. I am dating a guy that knows everything about me for almost three years and I want to end the relationship now because this guy does not want to be responsible. Each time I deny him anything or refuse to dance to his tune according to his wish he will say ‘I am going to reveal your secret to your mother.’ He threatens me with this always. Now that I want to end the relationship because of his irresponsible and selfishness he said he is going to tell my mother everything about me. Lovelines, I do not want my mother to know anything about this.

Madeline

Whatever the secret might be since you revealed it to him in the beginning it is no more a secret because you do not know how many people he has discussed it with among friends and families. You need to act fast and inform your mum about the whole thing that he knows about you that you called secret. Do not allow him to be the one that will wash your dirty linen before your mother because if you allow him to do so your mother or any of your brothers, sisters and in particular your father will never have a trust or believe in you and perhaps lost their favor for life.

What you thought is secret is no more a secret especially when your boyfriend is holding you to ransom by using it as a tool or measure to control you. One thing is that because of what he knew already he has turned you to his slave that is why he is threatening you with it. Your secret has become a weapon for him to fight against your right and make headway. No matter what the secrets are, explain them to your mother, she will not kill you but might be a bit distress but with time thing will be okay. She will definitely understand you, this I can promise you.

Your boyfriend suppose to be there for you in term of difficulty and heal the wound in your heart instead he become nothing but greedy and a daylight blackmailer. He does not love you but what he is getting from you. If you however marry him in future you are doom because you will remain his slave and subject for life. A word is enough for the wise; wake up from your slumber because there is nothing new on earth anymore so think. Good luck!

Agony Corner

Whatever, I will always love you

Lovelines,

                Kindly allow me to offload my heart through your popular column to the love of my heart. He is not here but he reads Lovelines always online.

My afar Lover man,

Standing here all on my own,

watching life go by

taking in those dreadful words

..a tear drops from my eye

I stood here as I watched you run

and waited for the pain and time to come

love can be a painful thing

you used my love in vain,

Why did you leave me here to cry?

our love had felt so...right

why did you go and break my heart

just like you did that night

let me kiss your lips once more

so I can see it's true

help me see your love is gone

that I can't be with you

don't leave me here to fall apart

to watch you fade away

tell me how you really feel and

why you just won't stay

I never thought I would cry so much

I want to see this through...although

you'll never feel for me... but

I always will love you!

However,‘am still waiting… my love.

Gibbeh

My girlfriends make me feel lucky

Lovelines,

                For sometimes now I have been screwing my girlfriend and her friend. I am sure they have been hearing something about this but none of them ever say something or ask anything about it from me. I always try not to allow them meet in my house unless they come together for hi, hi call. Recently, it was a coincidence, they met each other. I cannot say exactly how it happened because they came into the compound through different ways.

We went inside and their action was yucky as they were ready to burst the house for me and discredit my reputation. Since that they anywhere they find me they always try to swagger me. They seems not to be ashamed because they always say something about the love we have shared in a very negative way against me that I cannot defend myself than to feel ashamed of myself. Each time we met I either avoid them or they make me regret of knowing them.

Jerreh

The solution to your problem lies in your hand. You need confidence and never feel shy before them. However, you should have known better that there will be aftermath of this your game because you cannot eat your cake and have it. You have enjoyed yourself to screw them. Anyway you are lucky that they do not harm you but only want to make things miserable for you a bit. What you need to do first, again be confidence of yourself and pay no or less attention to them. 

Secondly, if you really sure of your words, three of you are nothing but like whore so threat them as one each time they attempt to disgrace you before anyone. Tell everyone in their faces how cheap they are. By the time you stand and challenge them they will have no alternative than to allow the sleeping dog lie low. It is not so bad to fling around to friends because you know what you want from them and what they want from you. But a serious lover is always faithful to his or her partner. Anyway you need to be careful, honest and trustworthy in your future relationship. Above all rift raft ladies are meant for the rift raft men. If you are a good Christian or Muslim you know what I mean. Good luck!

Can romance break my virginity?

Lovelines,

              I am 20 and a virgin. I love my boyfriend so much and he does love me as well, my question is that we always have deep and hot romance, so what I am not sure of is that can this break my virginity?

Naomi

Like it was explained in our last edition, strong, hot or deep romance will lead to desire and erotic and as this continue both of you would like to reach orgasm where the sweetness of romance is hidden. And orgasm is characterize by strong feelings of pleasure and marked normally by ejaculation of semen by the male and by vaginal contractions in the female.

Therefore the more you engage in deep romance, the more you will like to copulate. And when coitus happened between you and your boyfriend your virginity is broken. So avoid penetration, fingering, coitus or use or deep any object in your private part during romance if you are still a virgin. However visit a trusted family doctor for better explanation on how you can loose your virginity. You can still phone Lovelines if you think you still need more answers to your question. Good luck!

I want to apologize to her

Lovelines,

                I have a problem with my girlfriend and I do not know how to apologize to her.

Kinteh

Try to read Lovelines issue of 20 April 2012 there you will know exactly what to do to apologize to your lovely girlfriend. Good luck!

My problem needs urgent attention

Lovelines,

               My problem needs urgent attention, please. I am dating my friend ex fiancé. It was after three days they broke up that I tried to intervene, but she told me that she wanted to concentrate on her education which was her reason to break up the relationship with my friend. I tried to advice her but to no avail because she already made her decision. Later she started calling and discussing about love and marriage with me. I asked my friend about his intention on this but he gave no answer.

I built a relationship with her and start dating her three months back. There is nothing like canoodling or copulation between us. It was only one day we ever kissed, that was when she needed something from me. I have shown her my love and care severally but she has never one day show me her commitment in this relationship. What do I do?

Jones

Something good is not easy to come by. Had it been that she has shown her commitment to the relationship she has with your friend, he would not have let her go less alone allow you to date her. So think man, and stop being a duller. Secondly how do you feel eating the reminiscent food from your friend? If it is a tasty food your friend will finish it or struggle to have it all for himself.

I like her smartness over you because, that she is discussing something about love and marriage with you does not mean she love you that warranted you to woo her. More over you as as a friend to her ex, she might not interested in you than saying ‘my love’ on tongue. And kissing you ones when she needed something from you is ordinary for appreciation. So wake and stop living on illusion. Therefore call her to really tell you her mind in the relation as this will help you to follow your heart. Good luck!

We took an oath

Lovelines,

                My girlfriend and I love each other very much to an extent that we took a love oath. We are planning to get married but we always have problem every now and then. The problem is due to the fact that she is being good to men. Her ex boyfriends always call her and about nothing than love affairs. Secondly, she has a lot of male friends. I cannot condone all these. So I am asking for solution.

Suleman

It is never too late for two of you, particularly you to call your girlfriend and break the oath. Oath is a cast spell on whomever that swears to it. Sooner or later it will come to past when the circumstance guiding is violate or break by anyone or two of you. Since you cannot condone all these I advice you to break the oath you made with her and individual go free should in case you are destined together you will surely reunion.

Hence you are a jealousy type retrace your step and look somewhere else. Lastly, I will let you know that the love existing between two of you lack commitment, understanding, decision and authenticity. So stop claiming that you love each other your girlfriend might never done with her exes and you too cannot endure, so the relationship is stilllike primary school love without maturity. Good luck!like primary school love without maturity. Good luck!

My Love,

              I cannot get you out of my mind no matter how they try; I cannot get you out of my heart because you are succeeded in taking full control; your love has helped and made me become a better man. The more I am with you; the more I know I will always discover new thing to make me happy. Thanks a million for your love and caring; loving you is the most important thing in my life.

B-Cliff

Darling-friend,

                       A colorful message to a colorful person for a colorful day in a colorful way as a pray to the colorful ray forever. As I am staying and wishing you a blessed weekend, remember true love is the greatest gift because it is to trust, honest, sincere, open heart, to tell the truth to each other. True love is not to fake or fool one another. My pal chose true love. Really miss you darling friend.

Invincible Buddy

Darling,

             I love now, tomorrow and today, and if God give me the time, I will love you till the end of my life.

 Famata-Z

Loveline-Readers,

                            Patience and victory are twin brothers, for victory it come with patience, relief comes with distress and ease come with hardship. Surely Allah is with those who ‘zobir’-patience.

Invincible Buddy