Why men brag and swagger
Friday, April 20, 2012
A question is bothering my mind that I and other girls out there need answer. Can you explain, why do men brag when they see a woman they are attracted to? I have seen some men nursing love for women they are interested still they feel proud to voice it out whenever they meet; instead you will see them bragging but deep down their hearts they are dying for such lady.
It is true that some men brag and swagger when it comes to approach, dating or in a relationship. Whatever you think, it depends on types of what you mean because men’s bragging is not limited to approach a girl alone. Men’s bragging in relationship is varies let look at it from different angles for better understanding.
Men can brag about the money they spend on women; they can brag because they are dating a big lady that people are not expecting them to date probably because of standard or age; men brag because they know that without them you are nothing as a woman; they brag when it is obvious that they are in full control of the relationship. So also men brag to show that they are the men and women should be women and remain under them in a relationship. Still they brag when they are in midst of other women as they can find one they love among them, so they oppress and show their calibers. Some men brag before women simply because they are arrogant and imaginary sexual relationship.
If a man is bragging or swaggering to approach a lady he is interested or attracted to when they meet it is because of shyness and inability to express his feelings. So he will choose to brag and see if the card will fall on his side, later become addict. Therefore, such man will change and become a bit puff. It can make him loose some good girls. And it is difficult for some men to overcome this act of braggadocio because they always feel superior before any woman. More so, those men you see swaggering and bragging are suffering from nothing but inferiority complex.
Another thing is that man can brag when he hear and know everything about you. Women should remember the stereotype jokes that as it always goes on among women so also it does among men that are exchanging in-depth stories about each others relationship; what has transpired, transpiring and going to transpire; either false or true. So some men can use the information they heard about a lady they are interested either bad or good to brag.
Like I mentioned earlier, some men think if they raise their
shoulders and lower their wings of humility it will make women run after them
or take them to be great men. So note that some men and women are quirk, do not
blame them for this. It is an annoying phenomenon but you do not need to care
about such men or women, time come they will surely come down. Some men are
fond bragging by saying what they cannot do, what did not happen or lie about
something while it is so easy to find out. Some count bragging and swaggering
as part of fun and get accustomed to it. They do it just to boost their ego!
Another thing that is common but very bad is when you see
men bragging about all they have done for a lady so also some ladies to a man.
They swag about this just to show that they are big or make themselves feel
high and superior especially where they have audience watching them and hail
them. When you ask braggadocio for A he will insists on telling you the whole
story from A-Z, not just for a reason but because he love telling same story
over and over.
So if a man or woman is bragging, leave him or her alone it is a free drama. One thing you should put to consideration for quick judgment is how long you know the person be it a man or a woman, has he be like this all along or only at seeing you. Whatever, any braggadocio you know has not found one to put him in his size or where he belongs. So, braggadocio does not know or note that some people do not want to see them bragging and swaggering. So build them up and let them know that ladies do not go for that anymore unless they want to mess and ruin you down as a man because the more you brag the less woman admire you.
Author: Yunus Saliu